Cook's Concern

In colonial times, the choicest piece of meat or a special taste from a prized recipe was often called the Cook's Concern. The Cook would enjoy this morsel and tweak the dish if so needed. I hope to share with you the choicest morsels in current culinary information. Enjoy!

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Low Carb Cinqo De Mayo!

It is no secret that I have been working out at a local Get In Shape For Women studio for 10 months.  I feel better...my high cholesterol problem is no more...and I have dropped 20 pounds, give or take a few.  In addition to cardio and strength training, part of the transformation process is making smarter food choices, with a nod to low or lower carb menus.  This has been my greatest challenge...but I make more beneficial choices now and if I have something that has more complex carbs than I need, I work a little harder the next time I go to GISFW!
With Cinqo De Mayo coming up this weekend, I thought I would develop a low carb alternative to tacos or burritos.  These lettuce wraps have all the right flavors, and I think the lettuce provides a nice crunchy balance to the spicy chicken filling.    Enjoy!

Cinqo De Mayo Chicken Lettuce Wraps

2 large servings or 4 small servings
Ingredients
1 pound boneless chicken breast or thighs             1 head Butter or Boston lettuce, leaves separated
2 tsp. Mexican Chili powder                                     1 avocado, peeled and sliced
½ tsp. garlic powder                                                 1 cup cherry tomatoes, halved
½ tsp. onion powder                                                 1 small red onion, thinly sliced
¼ tsp. ground cumin                                                  ½ cup chopped cucumber
Sea salt and black pepper, to taste                           2 tbsp. chopped cilantro
2 tbsp. Coconut oil                                                    1 lime cut into wedges
½ cup mango, cubed                                                 Plain, low-fat Greek Yogurt
Method
Slice chicken into ¼ inch strips.
Toss the chicken in a bowl with chili powder, garlic and onion powders, cumin, salt and pepper, coating the meat thoroughly. Cover and set aside to marinate for 10-15 minutes.
In a non-stick skillet, over medium heat, melt the coconut oil until shimmering.
Add in the chicken, cooking for 8-10 minutes, stirring occasionally, until chicken browns slightly and is cooked all the way through…no pink!
Serve the chicken in the lettuce leaves, garnishing with your choice of avocado, tomato, onion, cucumber, mango and or cilantro.  Squeeze some lime juice over the top. 
Too spicy?  Add a dollop of plain, non-fat Greek yogurt for a cooling touch!

Enjoy with a Mint-Watermelon Martini                              serves 6
4 cups cubed watermelon, seeds removed                1/2 cup fresh mint leaves
1/2 cup fresh lime juice                                              zest from 1 lime
1 cup Ketel One Vodka                                               1/4 cup Cointreau
2 tsp. Stevia or Agave syrup
Garnish: mint leaves, small diced watermelon cubes, twists of orange peel
In a blender or food processor, combine the watermelon, mint, stevia and lime zest.  Process until smooth.
Using a sieve , strain the puree into a gallon pitcher.  Add lime juice, vodka and Cointreau to the pitcher and stir. Add 2-3 cups of ice.
To serve:  place a tablespoon of diced watermelon in the bottom of a chilled martini glass.  Carefully pour in the Watermelon martini.  Garnish with a mint leaf and orange peel twist! 
 ¡salud!                                   
Bon Appetit!

Thursday, April 4, 2013

A Recipe for Water?

Spa Water


With Spring right around the corner, it is time to kick up our healthy habits!  To get things started, hydrate, hydrate, hydrate!  But, let’s be honest, good ol’ water can be boring.  Soda is evil.  Tea and coffee are fine in moderation…but let’s get back to America’s favorite beverage…water. 
A couple years ago, I was visiting Charleston, South Carolina…beautiful city, dripping with history, charm and sweat…we were there during one of the worst heat waves this city had ever experienced.  I owe my well-being to whoever was responsible for filling a large dispenser filled with ice water that had strawberries, mint and citrus slices floating in it…right there in the lobby…calling me to drown my heated thirst…aah.  Each day of my stay afforded me a little libation surprise…cool, crisp and calorie free!
No sooner did I get back to Groton, then I ordered a 3 gallon glass dispenser to use when we entertain…but recently, my chapped hands and lips have me questioning why reserve such a useful tool for guests only?
I pulled the glass dispenser out of my storage room and I have played around with various refreshing fruit, herb and spice combinations to help me consume my 6-8 glasses of water daily.
A few weeks ago, I sliced 2 lemons, 1 limes, 1 orange, peeled  a 1 “x 2”  strip of fresh ginger, roughed up a few sprigs of mint and tossed them all in with 2 cups of fresh ice and a couple gallons of water…after an hour of “infusing” time, I imbibed the water as is and later in the day use it to make a cup of green tea…yum!
Green tea…I have heard the virtues of this stuff…I drink it on occasion when the health bug bites, but it has not been a regular in my menu of beverages…until now.  Much like the fruit water infusions, I wondered if I added green tea to the mix, could I amp up the benefits of my daily doses of H20…so I gave it a try.  Look for this tasty tea in the recipe section of this blog.
There is no rhyme or reason to the mixtures other than flavor profiles I enjoy…but there are health benefits to certain herbs, spices and fruits that give our Spa water a leg up over good old tap water.
Using food grade herbs and spices in normal quantities can help the body fight inflammation, abdominal/digestive discomfort, boosts metabolism, and serves as a natural diuretic . 
Listed below are some of my favorite fruits, herbs and spices and their benefits.

HERBS &                                                                                                                                               SPICES


Metabolism boosters: 
Green Tea                                                                                                                              Cayenne Pepper
MInt                                                                                                                                        Cinnamon
                                                                                                                                                Cumin
                                                                                                                                                Hot Curry blends

Relieves Abdominal Discomfort/Bloating
Fresh Ginger                                                                                                                           Ground Ginger
Fennel                                                                                                                                     Fennel Seed
Mint                                                                                                                                        Star Anise
Parsley                                                                                                                                   

Anti-inflammatories
Basil                                                                                                                                        Cardamom
Chamomile                                                                                                                             Cayenne
Chives                                                                                                                                      Cinnamon
Cilantro                                                                                                                                   Cloves
Parsley                                                                                                                                    Ginger (fresh and ground)
Rosemary                                                                                                                                Nutmeg
                                                                                                                                                 Turmeric

Fruits

The following fruits work well with many of the herbs and spices listed.  More importantly, aside from their own nutritional benefits,  they  infuse well and don’t get yucky in the water!
Citrus fruits:  Grapefruit, lemons, limes, oranges/ blood oranges, tangerines; whether sliced or just the peel
Melons:  Cantaloupe, Honeydew, Watermelon
Peach
Pineapple
Cherries
Berries: Blackberry, Blueberry, Raspberry, Strawberry
Carambola/ Star fruit and Kiwi
Miscellaneous:  although not a fruit, Cucumbers are a very refreshing addition to our Spa Water

Spa Water Concoctions to make 1 gallon:

Citrus Cooler
 Slice the following very thinly
2 lemons
1 Lime
1 Orange
1 Grapefruit

Add the fruit to 3 quarts of water and 4 cups of ice.
Drop in 3-5 sprigs of Spearmint and 4-6 sprigs of parsley and stir gently.
Allow the fruit and herbs to infuse for about an hour.
Enjoy.
You can replenish the ice one or two times more before needing to discard the fruits and herbs.

Springtime Splash
1 lime slice thinly
1 pint of strawberries, washed, hulled and halved
1 hothouse cucumber, sliced thinly
2 kiwi fruit, peeled and sliced thinly
½ cup crushed mint leaves
Add the ingredients to 3 quarts cold water and 4 cups of ice.
Spiced Green Tea Spa Infusion
2 Green tea bags
2 cinnamon sticks
1 star anise
1 piece of peeled fresh ginger 1inch by 2inches

Steep the tea in 1 quart of boiling water for 5 minutes
Discard the tea bags.
Add the spices and ginger to the tea and steep for at least 30 minutes.
Remove the star anise pod and discard.
Add 2 more quarts of cold water and 4 cups ice to the tea mixture.

Raspberry Lime Cooler
1 pint fresh raspberries, rinsed
1 lime, sliced thinly
½ cup mint leaves
2 quarts sparkling water
1 quart cold water
4 cups of ice

Combine all the ingredients in a gallon container and let sit for at least 15 minutes.

Tropical Cooler
1 cup fresh pineapple chunks
1 orange thinly sliced
2 tbsp. fresh ginger, grated
¼ cup cilantro leaves
2 quarts sparkling water
1 quart cold water
4 cups of ice

Combine all the ingredients in a gallon container and let sit for at least 15 minutes.
Cheers and Bon Apetit!
Raspberry Lime Cooler with Blackberry Garnish


Thursday, March 14, 2013

Champagne Thursday

Recently I self-published a little recipe book that focuses on the art of the aperitif.  I researched and developed most of the cocktail recipes myself...a tough job, but somebody had to do it!

Also, I incorporated many of the recipes for small plates and appetizers that I started developing when I lived in Paris...and I included some from our world travels.

I have been asked by many...Why Champagne Thursday?  Well, it is a two part answer:  First, about 12 years ago, my aunt shared with me her tradition of Champagne Thursday.  About the time she hit the 5 year  breast cancer free mark, she decided to celebrate with some bubbly and shrimp cocktail...and she and my Uncle Louie have enjoyed the pleasures of Champagne Thursdays...when she came to visit us and sponsor my eldest daughter for Confirmation, it was was a Thursday and she asked if we had any champagne for this was perfect reason to celebrate Champagne Thursday; a tradition was born!  It was reborn in March of 2010 on a cold March afternoon in Paris...and it has going quite strong ever since!

Secondly...we need to fast forward to April 2012!  My darling husband came home from work and declared he needed a gift for his assistant for Administrative Assistants' Day...the next day!  I suggested we put together a Champagne Thursday Basket for Bonnie.  It contained some Champagne, cocktail goodies, recipes and ingredients for some lovely appetizers and our history of Champagne Thursday...she cried and told me it was the best gift she ever got and that I should write a book. So I did.

Just over nine months later, accompanied by self-doubt, butterflies and sheer dumb luck, I self-published Champagne Thursday at www.lulu.com !  

It has been a great learning experience and I have learned some very valuable lessons...but perhaps the most important being just how lucky I am to have so many supportive friends and family who taste-tested, consumed great quantities of sparkling wines, and never doubted that I could do it!

If you are on Facebook, I hope you will pop over to My Champagne Thursday page and like it...I could use the help in publicizing my little tome...You'll know it because the cover from my book is the banner picture!

Also, if you have been so gracious as to buy my book, first...THANK YOU!!! and secondly, would you go to www.lulu.com (search for Champagne Thursday) and write a review...the more comments I get, the higher up the Lulu list my book goes!

So today is Champagne Thursday...I'd like to toast you all for your support for this blog, my book and my writing in general...you have given me the courage to try.  Cheers!

My first Champagne cocktail in Paris...in 2001 was a French Kiss...here's the recipe!  Bisous!

Ingredients
1 ounce Courvoisier (V.S.)                  1/2 ounce fresh lemon juice
1/2 tsp. super fine sugar                        Lemon peel twist
4 ounces Champagne (Pommery Pop was the preferred bubbly of the bartender!)

Method
In a small bowl, dissolve the sugar in the lemon juice.
Add the sweetened juice to a champagne flute.
Pour the brandy and champagne into the glass, swirling gently to mix.
Twist the lemon peel over the rim of the glass and use as a garnish.

Cheers!

Bon Appetit!

Monday, December 3, 2012

Have Yourself a Less Harried Little Christmas!

Strategies for a Happy Holiday and A Few Meals for a Busy Week
Tis the season to be very merry and busy!  This is also the time of year when we can lose track of our progress and grab a bite to eat here or gift ourselves with that special treat there…But, if you don’t have a menu planned to fall back on, those grabs and treats will be on so convenient, and just may set you back further than you intended.
Invest an hour or so during the weekend, perhaps before the family wakes up and plan out your meals for the week.  And, if you know you are going out to a restaurant, go on-line if possible and preview their menus so you can make an informed choice and not an impulse decision.
One trick I use is to order  soup as an appetizer…it generally takes a little longer to eat and if it is high in protein, will give a sense of fullness sooner.  Then, I will choose another appetizer or salad as my main meal…if a salad, I’ll ask if I could have some fish, chicken or even steak tips added on…the worst thing that could happen is they say no…but to be honest, that  hasn’t happened yet!
Admit it, we all know the drill about holiday parties…offer to bring a dish you know fits in with your meal planning…eat a small meal before you go…steer clear of the desserts…yup…we know…and sometimes those Christmas cookies just look to yummy…so…enjoy one….yes, one…and then grab some nuts or another shrimp or two…and watch your alcohol consumption…it will lessen you inhibitions and resolve to make healthier choices.
My rule of thumb is to START with a glass of water, flavored with lemon, lime or mint.  Sip it slowly and once that is gone, indulge in ONE glass per hour, of wine (4 ounces not 6, 8 or 10!) a light beer (12 ounces) or 1 ounce of liquor like vodka/gin and add at least 8 ounces of seltzer, club soda or sparkling water, add a twist of citrus and maybe a little splash of lime or cranberry juice to make it festive.  You’ll consume around 100 calories if you do this…want to cut a few more calories?...  A 6 ounce glass of Champagne has 75 calories and you look ever so elegant holding that Champagne flute!  Continue to alternate water and cocktails throughout your event.
Running around like crazy people trying to get our shopping, visiting and celebrating done creates a perfect storm for losing track or worse, control.  Being prepared for long lines, rush hour traffic delays and impromptu gatherings will give you a sense of personal power and that in and of itself can boost your motivation to keep on track. 
You might one to try some of these strategies for keeping it together during the chaos that we love during the holidays:
  • *      Pack a snack! In my purse,  I carry snack bags with a mixture of 1 tablespoon of dark chocolate chips, 1/8 cup of pistachios and 1/8 cup of dried cherries.   Another mixture at the same ratios is: dark chocolate chips, almonds and dried apricots.  At about 100 calories, It curbs the sweet, salty crunch thing that happens to the best of us!
  • *      Plan a menu and shopping list at the beginning of the week…if you have already bought the food and have the meals planned, you might be less likely to splurge on a less than healthy fast food feast.
  •        Have a well stocked pantry that has  some of the following: low sodium crackers, nuts, dried fruits, jams  and a few good quality baking mixes so you can welcome unexpected company with ease and a smile.
  • *      Use your slow cooker/crock pot and dinner will be ready when you get home!
  • *      Keep to your exercise schedule…this is a wonderful gift of time and camaraderie for you.
  • *      Drink plenty of water!  Adding some sliced citrus or mint leaves to the water makes it interesting and refreshing.
  • *      Portion control!  One simple rule…a serving size of just about anything should be no larger than a deck of cards for protein or the size of your fist for vegetables and fresh fruits.  If it is bigger than that, ask your server to pack up the extra as soon as possible.
  • *      Get plenty of sleep…tired people tend to give in to the path of least resistance and that may not always be the healthier choice.

 Here are some quick fixes and a slow cooker recipe to keep you on track and happier during this wonderfully, busy time of year!

Spicy Shrimp with Peas and Curried Cauliflower

Serves 4
Ingredients
1 lb. large deveined shrimp
1 large shallot, minced
2 cloves minced garlic
1 small cauliflower, chopped to resemble pieces of rice
½ cup chicken or vegetable broth
10 ounces frozen peas
Spice Blend:  1 tsp. ground cumin, ½ tsp. ground coriander, ½ tsp. ground ginger, ¼ tsp. turmeric, ½ tsp. white pepper,  ¼ tsp. cayenne pepper, 1 tsp. kosher salt
½ tsp. red pepper flakes
½ cup fresh mint, chopped
Juice from ½ a lime
Vegetable oil
Method
In a large pot of salted boiling water, cook the chopped cauliflower for 3-5 minutes, or until tender; once done, drain the cauliflower and set aside.
Heat 1 tbsp. oil in a large sauce pan, over medium high heat, and add the garlic and cook, stirring constantly for 30 seconds; do not let the garlic get brown, as this will make it bitter.
Add the cooked cauliflower to the pan, stirring often for another 2 minutes.
Next, add the spice blend, broth and season with additional salt and pepper to taste and lower the heat to simmer and cover.
In a large skillet, heat 1 tbsp. oil over medium high heat.
Season the shrimp with a pinch of salt, pepper and red pepper flakes and cook in the hot oil, tossing frequently, until the shrimp are pink, opaque and just start to curl. 
Remove to a plate and set aside.
Add another 1 tbsp. oil to the pan.
Add the shallots and peas, stirring occasionally until cooked through, about 3 minutes.
Mix in the mint, lime juice and adjust salt and pepper to taste.
Spoon a the cauliflower on to each plate and top with the minted pea mixture and 3-4 shrimp per person.
Garnish with lime wedges.
 Steak Tip Salad with Beets and Blue Cheese
Serves 4
Ingredients
1 to 1 ½ pounds of sirloin steak tips
1 cup cooked beets, peeled and cubed  (I buy Trader Joe’s Cooked Beets in the refrigerator section of the store.  They keep for weeks in the refrigerator and up to 5 days once open and stored in an airtight container in the fridge.)
2 scallions, thinly sliced
6 cups of mixed lettuces and greens
1 large carrot, shredded
2 tbsp. Italian parsley, chopped
4 ounces crumbled blue cheese (or goat cheese if you prefer)
Olive oil
Combine the following for vinaigrette:  ¼ cup extra virgin olive oil, ¼ cup red wine vinegar, 2 tbsp. water, 1 tbsp. Dijon mustard, ¼ tsp. salt, ¼ tsp. pepper.
Method
In a bowl, combine 1 tbsp. olive oil, with ½ tsp. salt and ¼ tsp. black pepper.
Toss in the steak tips and coat evenly.
Heat a grill pan over medium high heat.
Cook steak tips, being careful not to crowd the pan, and sear on all sides, taking about 3 minutes per side for medium rare.
Remove from heat and let rest while you assemble the salad.
In a bowl, mix together gently, the beets, scallions, carrots, parsley and half the vinaigrette. 
Place a large handful of greens on each person’s plate and top with ¼ of the beet mixture.
Place steaks tips on each salad and top with 1 ounce of cheese per person.
Drizzle the remaining vinaigrette on each salad and serve immediately.

 

 Eggplant Alla Matricianna with Zucchini Pasta

Serves 4
Ingredients
1 medium eggplant, cubed
2 cloves garlic, minced
2 zucchini and or summer squash cut into long pasta-like ribbons
6 ounces smoky bacon or pancetta, cut into ¼ inch pieces
2 cans diced tomatoes, drained and juice reserved**
1 large onion, sliced thinly
1 tsp. red pepper flakes
Olive Oil
Grated Romano cheese
Parsley for garnish
 Method
In a large pot over medium heat, cook the bacon until crisp, then, remove to a paper towel lined plate and set aside.
Add the onions and cubed eggplant and cook until lightly golden and soft, about 5-7 minutes
Reduce the heat and add the garlic and red pepper flakes and heat through for a minute.
Add the tomatoes, salt and pepper to taste and bring to a simmer.  **Add some of the reserved tomato juice if the sauce is too thick or too much liquid evaporates.
Return the bacon to the pan, covering and simmering for 15 minutes.
Remove the lid from the pot and toss in the zucchini ribbons.
Increase the heat to medium and cook for 3 minutes, or until the “pasta” is slightly tender (aka al dente).
For each plate, spoon out the zucchini pasta and sauce, topping each with some grated cheese and garnish with parsley.

 Scrod with Avocado Relish and Carrot Puree
Serves 4
Ingredients
4  6-ounce pieces of cod/scrod or haddock
1 avocado, diced
1 pint cherry tomatoes, halved
½ cup kalamata olives, pitted and halved
Juice of 1 lime
¼ cup chopped fresh cilantro or parsley
1 lb. carrots, peeled and cut into ½ inch dice
½ tsp. ground cumin
Olive Oil
Salt and pepper
Method
Place the carrots in salted boiling water.
Reduce the heat and simmer until tender, about 15 minutes.
Save ½ cup of the cooking liquid and drain the carrots.
Place the carrots, 1 tbsp. olive oil, ¼  tsp. salt,a pinch of pepper and ¼ cup of the cooking liquid in a the bowl of a food processor and puree until smooth (add more cooking liquid if the puree is too thick).
Place the carrots in a bowl large enough to rest on top of a pot of simmering water, in order to keep the carrot puree warm.
Heat 1 tbsp. olive oil over medium high heat, in a non-stick frying pan.
Season the fish with salt and pepper and cook in the hot oil until opaque and golden brown crust forms on each side, about 4-5 minutes preside.
In a separate bowl, combine the avocado, tomatoes and olives.  Toss gently with the lime juice, cumin, and cilantro.
To serve, spread a thick dollop of the carrot puree on each plate.
Place a piece of fish on the puree and top with a scoop of the avocado salsa. 
Garnish with lime wedges.

 Slow Cooker Asian Pork with Carrots, Snow Peas, Peppers and Squash Noodles
Serves 4-6
Ingredients
½  cup low sodium soy sauce
½ cup apple cider or apple juice
2 tbsp. rice wine vinegar
1 tsp. toasted sesame oil
1 tsp. grated fresh ginger
½ tsp. crushed red pepper flakes
2 lbs. pork loin cut into 2 inch pieces
1 medium onion, sliced very thinly
1 red bell pepper, cut into strips
1 carrot, peeled and shredded
½ lb. snow peas, trimmed
Chopped cashews for garnish
2 zucchini or summer squash, cut into “linguine” type noodles
  (Or if you prefer, try soba noodles and prepare according to package directions! )
Olive oil
Butter
Method
In a 4-6 qt. crock pot, combine the soy sauce, apple cider, vinegar, sesame oil, ginger, and red pepper flakes.
Add in the cubed pork and onions, and toss to coat.
Cover and cook on low for 7-8 hours or until the pork is fork tender.
A few minutes before serving, heat 1 tbsp. olive oil and 1 tsp. butter in a large sauté pan over medium heat and gently cook the squash noodles, carrot, bell pepper and snow peas until tender, about 5-7 minutes.
Divide the vegetables onto each person’s plate and top them with some pork and sauce from the slow cooker.
Garnish with chopped cashews or parsley if desired.

 Bon Appetit!



Wednesday, November 14, 2012

The Holidays are Coming...The Holidays are Coming

As one my old favorite Andy William’s songs goes…”It’s the most wonderful time of the year…”
Parties and menus are being planned.  Visitors from over the river and through the woods will stop by.  Shopping lists…chore lists…Christmas lists…sticky notes, all pop up, strategically placed to prompt ideas and organization.
Folks fail to RSVP, return your calls, email and Facebook messages…panic starts to rise…how many turkey legs do I need to buy?  Who has the nut allergy?  Low carb…no carb, vegetarians…vegans… family traditions…Oh my!
Well, have I got a newsflash for you!  Just do it your way;  enjoy it your way ‘cause in the end, only you as chief cook and bottle washer know what did and did not get done.  It took me years to figure that little tidbit out and a few more years to not let the turkeys get me down…if someone has the castagnas to tell you that you goofed, forgot something or worse criticizes your holiday efforts…assign them that task or better yet, take them off next year’s guest list !
It is true that this most wonderful time of the year brings little stress bags into your life…to minimize the baggage, may I offer a few helpful hints?
1.       Take good care of yourself:  Get plenty of sleep, exercise and eat sensibly…no crash diets in order to binge during the holidays…you’ll only weaken your resistance and resolve and we don’t need that do we.
2.       Make a financial plan:  write out your menus, shopping lists and BUDGET well in advance of your events.  Shop the circulars for those things you can buy early, store and or freeze.  Things like your fresh turkey or roast, order from the butcher or grocery store at least a week in advance and pick it up as late in the day before your plan to cook it... let it take up their space not yours!
3.       Write out your action items:  If you are terribly organized, this plan can begin 6 weeks to a month in advance. 
a.       Send out invites 4-6 weeks before the event and ask for responses at least two weeks before your event.
b.      Create your menu and stick to it…improvisation is for other times of the year
c.       Make in advance, refrigerate and freeze as much of your menu as you can…my homemade cranberry sauce tastes so much better when I make it the week before Thanksgiving!
d.      It may sound silly, but pull out your special occasion pieces like china and serving platters and bowls at least a week before your event.  Check to see if you have everything and the condition of the pieces…NO ONE wants to polish silver on Thanksgiving or the day of a party or come to find out that you are missing a salad plate!
e.      Set up a staging area.  I set up a folding table in my formal dining room and put all my supplies, dishes and nonperishables there.  If it is on the staging table…death (or a severe tongue lashing) to the person who moves it!
f.        I love the inventor of the sticky note!  I use these to label my platters with each menu item…no guesswork or searching for the right bowl, plate or serving fork…it has been labeled…and since you have already designated each piece, you can delegate when it comes time for food service…just make sure your minions remove the labels before putting the food in…I learned that lesson the hard way a long, long time ago!
g.       Set your table the day before your event.
4.       Oh yeah, DELEGATE…you need not kill yourself preparing a menu from soup to nuts!  Ask guests to bring appetizers but make sure to give a suggestion…if you are thinking veggies and dip and not loaded baked potato skins that will a) take up room in your already busy oven and b) be too heavy a nosh before a meal…then speak up for heaven’s sake…desserts are also a great hand-off item…and don’t be a dessert snob…stuff from a bakery or specialty store is just as nice as homemade…ask someone to bring wine, or cider, or flowers…delegating takes a few tasks of your list and invites ownership of your event to your guests. 
a.       If you are faced with guests with special requests or food allergies, invite them to bring something to share, but also, make sure you prepare a few dishes separately from your main preparations.  I have a few cooking tools that I use only for nut free recipes.  I also designate allergen free or vegetarian/vegan foods with a tasteful little menu card so my guests need not worry, nor have to seek me out about what is “safe” for them to eat.
5.       Made a lifestyle change recently?…for me it is a reduced carb menu…Yikes! right?  Well, having my game plan in place, I know that I can enjoy the flavors of the holidays with modified recipes…and unless my family reads this blog, they will be none the wiser!  There will be plenty of parsley, sage, rosemary and thyme…just not a lot of bread, potatoes and sugar.  Play up your favorite flavors of the holidays…whether savory or spicy…you can add those flavor profiles and still honor the spirit of the holidays…for example:  Instead of mashed potatoes,  mashed roasted root vegetables… my stuffing recipe has half the bread and twice as much mirepoix, apples and some sausage to boost flavor.
a.       Prepare some carrot and celery sticks to have on hand when you need to taste the food you are preparing…dip the veggie stick in the food to be tasted and make your adjustments…then finish the veggie…you will get just a taste and not a spoonful of whatever you are preparing…and the crunching curbs your desire to sneak more than a taste!
b.      Another way to help us/me with carbs and calories is that I will be serving  5 courses of portioned controlled food instead of serving buffet or family style.  Each course will be some version or variation of our family traditions, but using all the pieces from formal china, I will be able to serve smaller servings over a longer length of time so we can eat until full….not stuffed!
c.       There will be dessert…but for me it will be a lovely fruit and cheese platter with some sparkling wine…yes!
6.       If you are having a houseful and leftovers are an issue, consider:
a.       Cooking an extra turkey breast the night before your event and pre-slicing it for your guests to take home for their own turkey sandwiches at home.
b.      Purchasing disposable food storage containers that you can send home with family and friends…as you clean up after the meal, just back up “to go” bags…less food and less waste for you to deal with post-holiday!
7.       Finally…if all else fails and things just don’t go as planned, as this Irish Catholic was taught…offer it up, learn from your mistake and have a sense of humor.  Thanksgiving and the rest of the upcoming holidays provide us the time to count our blessings.  When you think about what is truly important, it is not the food, but the company that matters…it is not the number of presents under the tree, but the number people who love you that really counts…and for those whose families are not as fortunate, take time and perhaps some of your budget to donate to a local food pantry, soup kitchen or outreach service…for it is in giving that we can be truly thankful!

Happy Holidays from our home to yours!